Each One, Reach One
Mentorship
Ask what you're stuck on. Or offer what you carry.
MEND is built on women lifting women. Some questions need one good answer from someone who has been there. Others need someone to walk alongside you for a while. Tell us what you need and we will read it ourselves, then either come back to you directly or introduce you to a woman who can help.
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The MEND Community
Each one, reach one.
Women lifting women, hand in hand
I need support
Ask a MEND sister
Bring the question you actually have. It can be one thing you need answered, or something bigger you would rather not carry alone.
This isn't a crisis service and isn't monitored around the clock. If you are in danger or thinking about harming yourself, please call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline) or call 911.
I want to mentor
Offer what you carry
You don't need a title or a programme. If you know something another woman is trying to work out, that counts. We hold your details privately and come to you only when a request matches what you offer.
Mentors support, they don't treat. We'll never ask you to handle a medical or crisis situation, and we'll talk you through what an introduction involves before we make one.
Many women arrive with something to ask and something to offer at once. If that's you, use both forms: being mentored and mentoring are the same road, walked in different directions.
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